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Website is [login to view URL] which is a basic site from [login to view URL] with some design changes. I need the following added: 1. View Texas Men category (i've put in the link on the left hand side) needs to show all of actual profile of men in site, not just user name 2. View Texas women category (I've put in the link) needs to show all of actual profile of women in site, not just user name 3. Who's online facility added (this is not an absolute necessity and I think it may be the most complicated thing to do on this site, so if it is going to be a lot more $ to add this in, it can be left for the moment) 4. Members to be upgraded automatically rather than having to do it in admin as is required now. 5. When an upgraded member sends a message to a non upgraded member, this member should receive an email to say he has received a message at [login to view URL] and who it is from, but they need to upgrade to read it. 7. When an upgraded member sends an email to an upgraded member the recipient should receive an email saying they have mail at [login to view URL] NB At present emails are only sent to newly registered members and when they upgrade.