103306 Website Message Board Change

I'm not happy with my current PHPbb forum- too many spammers, and too many fake e-mails. I would like to upgrade to a more professional looking forum for women with custom graphics to match or complement the look of my website [login to view URL] I need someone who can advise me on the purchase of new forum software and do a little hand holding at the same time on getting it set-up. I do not want to lose my current members (about 200)or the current posts. I would also like help setting up Google advertising code as well as an area for Amazon affiliate ads for books, etc. I'm also looking for someone I can trust and who communicates well with me to help me with occasional small jobs to improve the look of my website on an as needed basis in the future.