Adult Dating site template

Need an adult website template built for a dating site script and the template must fit both the dating site and the affiliate script. I have two partners so it will be a three way vote on how you build it. We want something different. Maybe flash maybe not. We need someone who knows what they are doing so they can show us some examples. It will be a cheaters, swingers and quickie site. We want it tasteful but to portray what the site is about.. Any graphics should be of legal age and not showing any sex on the page. It can suggest it but not show it. More work to come later. We have lots of stuff to do and won't be open with the site till January.